Mod Sir,
I have just discussed here the way we used to deal with website violators 7-8 years ago. The ebay.uk company had a search tool for the search of such phrases and the words and would send the listing nos.(like blog no.) to us and we would review and see if it violated the policies, immidiately the listing was removed. The profane words were defined like bast**d, f*ck etc were allowed but not in full form that is complete word as bastard etc. The rule is same for Indian websites also, rather Indian websites take a clue from American rule makers for websites. We can have our own set of rules and words which are not allowed and put this on...
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website and any body using such words will be an offender and action will be taken immidiately by removing that post/blog and putting the member, admin/fm under suspension/dismissal as the case may be according to our set of rules which we will clearing having on the website as Posting Policy or Blogging Policy or whatever you decide. Now the person affected will be able to appeal his case and review can be done by the admin/fm/moderator to give final verdict and that will be final towards action taken on the affected member.
This definitely requires Search Tool sending such offensive post nos. to admin/fm/moderator to review and take immidiate action. Review is to see the word written in what context. Search Tool will catch the word or sentence like the word "screw", will send to admin/fm/modeerator and who will see the context whether the means was abusive, action will be immidiately taken by removing that blog/post and member can only appeal, the response time to that can be fixed as 24/48/72 hours/one week etc. The punishment bases on the nature of offence can be decided like suspension for 24/48/72 hours/one week/one month/3 months/6 months/one year/life time depending on the rules laid out.
I am sure you must have many other ideas but this is the one which will not put anyone into any position of bias etc. and the site will remain clean as the action time can not be more than 5 min. as the post/blog no. will be sent to all admin/fm/moderator and will reach withing one min to everybody and whosoever can the take earliest action will be the time of that offensive word/sentence. Also other rules can be added and actions against offenses according to set rules taken immidiately and no need for approval. Whatever the case may be the appeal by the member will be put to review an the decision final after the review.
I hope I have not intruded into your way of working, but to get rid of everyday abuse/removal of members with emotional outbreaks will not be there as the search tool is not human and the action will be human based on the review of the offensive word/sentence and it will be common for member, admin or fm.
I again hope you will try to at least give attention to the attempt by me and other members who have contributed to this blog and come to some concrete conclusion which does not put any member/admin/fm in a 'biased' tag.